During intercourse my husband is unable to cum with me no matter how long we go at it or what i do but he reads these stories and looks at these pics of these giantess women which he has a fantasy of and masturbates to them and is able to cum very quickly and easily. We figured it was that and I finnally managed to get him to stop masturbating to this stuff. About a month ago a relative stayed and we werent able to make love since we live in an efficiency apt with no bedroom so he went back to masturbating to this stuff to get off although i didnt want him to. Now he is unable to cum for me again whether it be intercourse or oral even try jerking him off since he can get off that way for himself but it doesnt work but then he turns around and reads those stories or looks at pics and cums very quickly and easily. The first time we had trouble with this I told him how much it bothered me and asked him to not go back to doing this but he promised he would still be able to cum with me but now were back at the same problem because of his inability to stop masturbating to this stuff. Does this mean hes not attracted to me and would much rather like it if i was some 30 or so ft tall woman in one of his stories or pics??? Please reply if you have any suggestions for us this is ruining our sex life

I am aware of how stressful the problem must be to the both of you. How long have you been married? Were you successful at anytime? Under what circumstances? Are you using any contraceptives?
Firstly, your partner must stop reading porn. Attempt intercourse when both of you are ready. Your husband can try fantasising during the act and see if it helps. Mutual masturbation is also recommended.
You must improve on your personal relationship, including open communication and committment.
Patience and less stress are the key.
If this doesn't work please consult a sex therapist/ counsellor.
Take heart. If both of you are commited, you can tide over this problem!!